The Top Ten Ways to Take
Positive Risks in your Life!
November, 2010
By Craig Nathanson - The
Vocational Coach™
Here are the top ten ways to take positive risks in your life
(And what will happen if you do)
1. Decide what you want and then define and take the
biggest risk you can think of which will move you closer to
your goal. (Taking action towards doing what you wanto
do is not a risk)
2. Make a step by step plan towards an important goal
and define risks you MUST take to move forward. (Living
a status quo life will not change any situation for which you
are stuck )
3. Ask yourself what is possible and then make a list.
(Most people spend too much time pondering what things
won't work and as a result justify why taking no actionis the
best choice)
4. Take action- do something unusual to create movement
towards a goal which is important to you. (Like a set
of domino's, all the choices from the past which no longer fit
you will fall down)
5. Only strive to accomplish a few really important
things each day. (Life isn’t about having the
biggest to-do list) but making progress and living a life which
is most important to the person living it!)
6. Work to develop the relationships which matter to
you. (Don’t be afraid to terminate the relationships
which no longer work for you or be afraid to pursue new ones
which nourish you)
7. Re-define yourself by WHO you are vs. WHAT you do.
(Job titles are for the human resources staff)
8. Define and live your perfect vocational day.
(Recreate a life which works better for you vs. one which works
better for someelse who really doesn't care about your welfare)
9. Be your own best friend. (Easier said than
done since people tend to be their own worst critics)
10. Give yourself permission to take risks in your
life. (Otherwise, you will wait a very long time and
then wonder later why change took so long)
Taking risks towards what you want in your life is all relevant.
What might seem like a big risk to one person might not seem
that risky to another. Happiness in life, work and relationships
is knowing you were not afraid to try something new in your
life when the status quo no longer worked. Take a few risks
towards what you want- Your life will be richer from the inside
out!
I'll be cheering you on as you go!
Craig Nathanson
Craig Nathanson is the author of "How
to find the RIGHT work during challenging times: A new approach
to your life and work after 40" and is a coaching
expert who works with people over forty.
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office, or read other stories of mid-life change and renewal.
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is located at P.O Box 2823, Petaluma Ca, 94953. You can reach
him at 707-775-4020 or at craig@thevocationalcoach.com.
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