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Paoli 
Colleen, Motivated and Motivational!
Married
to her better half “Rocky” at the age of 19, and then
having five children by the age of 26 kept Colleen busy raising
their children (and a few others) for many years. She worked off
and on in office jobs, along with a few part-time businesses of
her own in housekeeping, pet-sitting and beauty product sales.
At age 35, Colleen started college, and she graduated at the age
of 40 with a Bachelors degree in Accounting. Her career since
then has been focused mainly in the business arena, including
positions such as Office Administrator, Human Resources Director,
Accountant, and currently, Asset and Property Manager for a real
estate development company. Colleen found that she enjoyed smaller
entrepreneurial work environments where she could see the effects
of her contributions. Through the years, she noticed that many
people were dissatisfied with their lives for any number of
reasons. Some just needed a friendly ear to listen to them,
or a different perspective to consider. Some needed a cheerleader
or coach to help them along. Though she talked with people of
all ages, the concentration of dissatisfaction she noticed was
among young adults.
For many years it has been Colleen’s belief that we should
“think about what we think about,” and that our
thoughts are the seeds that grow our lives. A new PERSPECTIVE
(or changing your thoughts about a particular subject or issue)
can change your situation, or the way you react to it. She continued
to study the writings of many authors in this area, and she
attempted her own writing on the subject. Positive feedback
on her efforts came often enough to keep her encouraged that
she was on the right track with these beliefs.
A few years ago Colleen became frustrated in her efforts to
write motivational material, and she was stalled in developing
a plan for moving forward. During this trying period, she became
unsure—was this really her true calling? She asked God
to take away her desire to teach in this area if it was not
his plan for her. Amazingly, he answered instantly, saying,
“Who do you think put the desire in your heart? It is
already yours, just reach out and take it.” Talk about
a confirmation!
Since then, Colleen has changed her approach by thinking a
little smaller. She discovered that one of the factors defeating
her was that she was trying to take on “big” projects,
when working on smaller projects was more productive. She set
up a defined work space, started carving out smaller but more
frequent chunks of time for writing, paid more attention to
those who were already doing what she wanted to do, and joined
Toastmasters International. Her biggest accomplishment was to
let go of her fear and uncertainty about her efforts, and understand
that, though there are many others who teach on the same subject,
her voice would be unique and it would connect with those who
are meant to hear it.
Colleen enjoys her current job, and according to her employer,
she does it well, but still job dissatisfaction had crept in
over the last year or two. Fortunately, her employer is very
supportive of her motivational speaking efforts, and since she
has moved toward her own vocational goals, her job dissatisfaction
has disappeared.
“Once I decided to move forward and press on toward my
desired vocation, encouragement in many forms has come into
my life. A local computer store owner asked me to conduct an
employee training session on communication, and I found an encouraging
and enthusiastic Toastmasters club. Just last week I met someone
from the neighborhood where I grew up, and he said to me, “Have
you ever thought of being a motivational speaker? You’d
be great at it?” I replied, “Well, as a matter of
fact, I have.”
What can we learn from Colleen’s story?
Just changing your perspective can give you new direction and
energy for a more fulfilling life!
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